While some couples integrate the two, experts warn that using discipline solely as foreplay undermines its corrective power. If he starts wanting punishment, it ceases to be punishment. Most successful FLR DD couples keep erotic spanking separate from disciplinary spanking—different implement, different room, different tone of voice.
: A key indicator of an FLR-DD relationship is who makes the final call on major and minor life decisions. In this dynamic, the woman typically has the final say. Motivation and Psychology flr domestic discipline