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Glover distinguishes between a genuinely good, kind man and a "Nice Guy." The latter is defined not by virtuous behavior but by a driven by fear and shame.
The goal of the book is to help men become "Integrated Males." This means accepting one's flaws, being assertive, and expressing needs directly rather than through passive-aggressive behavior. Boundaries as Wisdom: No More Mr. Nice Guy
In his book No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life , Dr. Robert Glover defines the "Nice Guy Syndrome" as a belief system where a man thinks he is not okay as he is. Glover distinguishes between a genuinely good, kind man